It creates an oppressive environment where anyone who does not conform to the cis heteropatriarchy is punished, and where one of the worst possible things is to exhibit behavior that is commonly ascribed to women. Imagine that filtered through playground misinformation or childhood cruelty, how it then trickles down to affect everyone in their path, and it becomes abundantly clear that under the patriarchy, it’s not just women, femmes, trans girls, or queer kids who are hurt by these crushing expectations and rigid social norms, but also men.
