As human beings we have a mind that can think. We remember what has been painful. We constantly dream about the future, about the nice things we’re going to have, or are going to happen to us. So we filter anything happening in the present through all that: “I don’t like that. I don’t have to listen to that. And I can even forget about it and start dreaming of what’s going to happen.” This goes on constantly: spinning, spinning, spinning, always trying to create life in a way that will be pleasant, that would make us safe and secure, so we feel good.
