He’s indulging me a bit, and even though we only do kinky stuff in a sex context—honestly, it’s the only context I want to do kinky stuff in, the rest of the time I want a boyfriend—I think we’re sort of flirting around the edges of it right now. I’m pretty sure it’s as far as we’re ever going to take it, but it’s kind of obvious to both of us we’re each getting our own thrill out of it. I like choosing for him, and he likes being chosen for.
