“We’re alike in a lot of ways. Disciplined. Hard working. Unemotional. People respect that in a man. But with a woman, they say you’re cold or harsh.” “People say that about Deuce, too.” “They don’t hold it against him, though.” I think about that. How attributes are viewed in men versus women. How women are criticized for behaviors that might be seen as virtues in men. You see plenty of that in the military—guys getting complimented for their “leadership skills” and gals getting called “ball-busting bitches” when they give the same orders.
