A surgeon has to be detached. Being detached does not mean being unconcerned. Please don't understand it wrongly. People say detached means that I should not bother. No, you be concerned. Being concerned and being worried and attached are different things altogether. If a surgeon identifies a child as his child, it is very difficult for him to do surgery. But for the neighbour's child he will do it. Not that he will be careless, but then he is not identified. When he is not identified, his effectiveness is enhanced. For your own child, you are capable of doing it, but because of the identity
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