You are really looking forward to spending some time with your cousin, but on the evening of the dinner you think, ‘It’s too far off. Maybe I can do it on another day?’ It’s not that you are lazy (only your mom, dad, and spouse think so), sick or psycho (only you think that you are) it’s just that sometimes you are not ‘up to’ things. You really want to get out of home but when it actually comes to the crunch, your enthu or motivation is low.
