As an analogy, imagine a tree growing on a windy hillside. The tree has become bent from the wind and rain and now has a special shape that tells the story of its life. It has departed from the prototypic straight and symmetrical tree. The real tree has made a special adaptation to its unique life experience — it is no more “wrong” than any other tree. It is strong and healthy and more beautiful because of its experiences. Similarly, you are “right” and perfect in being you. You have adapted to the storms of your own life. You have many magnificent qualities that you can learn to appreciate
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