Those who can never be rich may not want you to become rich. That’s an ugly thing to say, but unless you realise and accept that you cannot be ‘one of the boys’, that your bosses and you are not ‘in this thing together’, that only those who refuse to be conned by the idea of ‘team spirit’ in the workplace can succeed – unless you come to fully comprehend and understand all this, then you will only make other people rich. You will receive their heartfelt thanks and maybe a gold watch when you retire. But you will not get the money!