Individuals (jivas) suffer from two basic feelings; 1) they find it impossible to believe that they are Paramatman, the Supreme Self, and 2) they believe themselves to be something other than Paramatman such as the body, or mind, personality, etc. If you regard your guest, friend, wife or any other person, as your Self, then this is the true sign of magnanimity, enabling one to approach all situations with calmness. 24/09/1933