It is also common for me to meet someone at our meeting place or rendezvous, rather than for us to go there together. For example, if there was an agenda to meet for a cup of tea at 11.00am or to see a movie due to start at 11.00am, I would much rather get there on my own so that I keep to my script, no matter what the other person is doing. My friend and I meet regularly in our local cafe, yet we each take our own bikes and travel there separately, despite living as neighbours. I do not want to be committed to someone else’s schedule or script.

