Therefore, you can accept the fact that your spouse no longer feels deep love for you, and you can even accept the fact that they feel love for someone other than you. You accept feelings because for the person having those feelings, the feelings are always true, even if you do not want them to be. But it does not mean that you should accept your spouse committing adultery, or even spending time with the other person by phone or face to face. The key here is to separate thoughts, feelings, and actions. Accepting a person’s thoughts, views, understandings, emotions, and the like means accepting
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