when nonaddicts try to understand the addict’s use of substances, they may be at a loss. What in heaven’s name is wrong with this person who has a fine home, a good marriage, healthy children, and a rewarding job? they ask themselves. Why the dissatisfaction? Why does this person drink or use drugs so often? The answers may not be easy to accept.
So important. No shoes fits one all and you will never know how a person is feeling inside. To the outside they appear like they have the perfect life.
