Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist: How to End the Drama and Get On with Life

by Margalis Fjelstad

you are reinforcing the BP/NP’s behavior when you collapse in the face of his or her anger. If you give in to the BP/NP’s demands, he or she will demand more. If you take the blame for the BP/NP’s actions, he or she will blame you even more.