Protesting colluders are the most likely Caretakers to complain about the behaviors of the BP/NP. You try to make demands that the BP/NP treat you better, and you may spend a huge amount of time and energy trying to prove to the BP/NP that you deserve better treatment. You especially try to use logic with the BP/NP to convince him or her that you are right and the BP/NP should just “do it your way.” However, nothing in the relationship ever does change because you are not willing to take the difficult step of enforcing consequences on the BP/NP for his or her neglectful, selfish, and uncaring
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