lasts longer than a few days or hours. The BP/NP has had many rejections in love before you came along. Others have experienced the BP/NP’s controlling and even selfish behaviors in relationships and have left. You, however, see the clues but don’t leave. Instead, you feel drawn in, you may feel the BP/NP needs you, and you may feel rewarded for your rescuer responsibilities. You feel a level of excitement and hope. You see a match. At first, this seems like a comfortable
