BP/NPs typically feel that it is just too much to ask of them to be responsible for anything they haven’t decided to do. They also will leave tasks unfinished when they no longer feel like doing them. Often they believe they are too busy, too stressed, too upset, too angry, or too depressed to deal with all that sort of thing. Anyone who asks them for more than they feel they can do is likely to get verbally abused or made to feel horrible for even considering burdening them with such a request. Therefore, the Caretaker takes on more and more responsibility and family obligations because the
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