pain or lured into the excitement and fun that the narcissist offers early in the relationship. Protesting colluders tend to be extremely loyal and expect high levels of commitment from themselves. However, you are surprisingly willing to be forgiving and overly tolerant of the lack of commitment and participation by the BP/NP. You may have had one BP/NP in your family growing up, and you probably have had a friend or two who would fit the BP/NP description. The main element
