It is vital that we learn to respond well to criticism from wherever it comes, and especially from those who love us, if we are to mature as people. One friend of mine suggests a three-point approach to criticism: Expect it: given our sins and weaknesses, we should be surprised we receive so little criticism. Examine it: we should resist the instinctive temptation to defend ourselves or attack the critic, but rather consider whether there is truth in what is being said. Endure it: even when we feel it is unfair, we must not be resentful.
