Now think carefully: you can live with anybody’s good points. Therefore, remove the first column and do not consider it. Don’t focus on this first column, as it will very often blind you to the bad points and hold you to that person, which may emotionally damage you. The second column means that you can honestly live with these points and that you accept them AS THEY ARE. So ignore this column. Finally we reach the third column. If you have put down anything in this column, then you are really saying that you cannot live with this person. This seems tough, but research looking at lots of
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