As a rule, to define success, Chimps look for material belongings and achievements, whereas Humans look for personal qualities. For example, your Chimp may answer, “Being a millionaire defines success to me,” but your Human may answer, “Being happy defines success to me.” Of course the Human might argue that if you had a million dollars then you would be happy! Don’t be influenced by others, but work out what your Human and your Chimp define as success. Then decide if your Chimp’s ideas are truly acceptable.