As vexing as dealing with an oppositional child can be for adults, in its appropriate context counterwill, like all natural instincts in their natural setting, exists for a positive and even necessary purpose. It serves a twofold developmental function. Its primary role is as a defense that repels the commands and influence of those outside the child’s attachment circle. It protects the child from being misled and coerced by strangers. Counterwill also fosters the growth of the young person’s internal will and autonomy.
