A Thousand Days in Venice: An Unexpected Romance

by Marlena de Blasi

Older people get married for different reasons than young people do. Perhaps it’s that in a younger partnership, the man lives on his side of the marriage and the woman on hers. Gracious opponents in competitions over career, social and economic status, frequency and intensity of applause, they meet at table or in bed, each exhausted from the solitary race. In a later marriage, even if they work on different things, they’re still working as a team, remembering that being together was why they got married in the first place. I look at Fernando, and I can’t imagine not remembering that.