He could see how in his “fact-driven way” he was totally out of control and had let his anger drive the agenda. It would accomplish little of what he really wanted. In the rush of emotion, he had forgotten his own boundaries, spun out of control, and failed to keep his larger goals in mind. He could see that now, but it had taken “outside eyes” (mine) to look at the situation and to give him the objective feedback that he needed—feedback that he could not provide for himself in such an angry state.
