Interpersonal Interaction On Non-verbal Participation,” it has been understood that anyone who announces a program beginning with the word “Toward. . .” probably does not intend to get any where.[xciii] As Berne puts it, real people will not get on an airplane whose flight plan calls for it to fly “toward” New York. Nor will those who intend to get to a solution abide a program that merely aims “toward” the goal.

