Kindle Notes & Highlights
by
Tony Evans
men are notorious for being critics.
what does and does not help you to grow and learn as a Christian.
if you need someone to give you time, patience, and teaching to grow, you should be willing to extend that same grace to your wife.
for many husbands. The reason they can’t pastor their wives is that they aren’t growing and maturing themselves.
A husband who is stagnant spiritually is in no position to lead his wife.
Instead of looking for miracles or quick fixes, husbands are called to show consistent love and biblical leadership that helps their wives grow into the full radiance of the inner and outer beauty that God designed them to have.
Genesis 2:19–20.
So the Lord God formed from the ground all the wild animals and all the birds of the sky. He brought them to the man to see what he would call them, and the man chose a name for each one. He gave names to all the livestock, all the birds of the sky, and all the wild animals. But still there was no helper just right for him. - Genesis 2:19-20 NLT
http://bible.com/116/gen.2.19-20.NLT
Through a proper understanding and application of the covenant of marriage, a husband who seeks to follow God should be able to promise his wife a growing, sanctifying relationship.
a husband can enhance this process for his wife by helping her grow in spiritual beauty and glory until she is transformed before his eyes. But to do that, he has to get dirty by dealing with the stuff in his own life and in his wife’s life that defiles and needs to go.