The Peacemaker

by Ken Sande

The Bible teaches we should be concerned about the well-being of others regardless of whether they are Christians or non-Christians (Luke 10:25–37; Gal. 6:10). We are also commanded to “live at peace with everyone” (Rom. 12:18). Therefore, most of the principles given above apply to conflicts with non-Christians. Of course, you should modify your approach somewhat, being sensitive to their perspectives and needs. Instead of referring to specific Bible verses, you may appeal to commonly held interests or values, such as preserving a marriage or maintaining a good reputation. (There will be more on this in chapter 11.) Even so, most of the principles described throughout this book will be applicable to resolving a conflict with a non-Christian. And in some cases, God will use your faithful efforts at peacemaking to help the other person come to faith in Christ.