The four principles may be summarized in four basic questions, which we consider thoroughly in subsequent chapters: Glorify God: How can I please and honor God in this situation? Get the log out of your own eye: How can I show Jesus’ work in me by taking responsibility for my contribution to this conflict? Gently restore: How can I lovingly serve others by helping them take responsibility for their contribution to this conflict? Go and be reconciled: How can I demonstrate the forgiveness of God and encourage a reasonable solution to this conflict?
