What am I preoccupied with? What is the first thing on my mind in the morning and the last thing on my mind at night? How would I answer the question: “If only ______, then I would be happy, fulfilled, and secure”? What do I want to preserve or to avoid at all costs? Where do I put my trust? What do I fear? When a certain desire is not met, do I feel frustration, anxiety, resentment, bitterness, anger, or depression? Is there something I desire so much that I am willing to disappoint or hurt others in order to have it?
