Pay special attention to your consulting room. Create an environment in which you feel comfortable and surround yourself with the kinds of things that remind you to be calm and mindful. Comfortable furniture, pillows, and soft lighting contribute to an atmosphere of reflection and contemplation. I have a painting of children playing quietly at the beach, old books, and antique furniture to communicate consistency, solidity, and caring to my clients. I keep candles in my office and a small stereo to help me relax between sessions. I’ll take the time to relax by stretching, reading the
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