Triangles are neither good nor bad. They just are, everywhere. As long as there is any undifferentiation left in the emotional system there will be triangles. For that reason, there is no possibility of going on to a higher level of differentiation without learning how to manage oneself emotionally in and through triangles. As one goes to a higher level of differentiation, the ability to recognize and manage oneself emotionally in triangles improves. But this ability will always remain relative.
