The relationship posture of an ideal relationship is built upon the equality of the partners. In a high-level relationship, equality does not have to be worked at, it is just there. That equality is not based on tallying up individual assets; rather, it is a relationship stance, a posture assumed by the individuals. Each accepts the other as no more and no less talented, responsible, or free than him- or herself. Respect for the other, so often pointed to as essential for relationship success, is based on the equal posture.
