The big problem with narcissists is that they can’t or won’t change their ways, even when it causes problems at work, at home, or when people complain about the way they act. When it comes to most emotional disorders, you may have heard that the first step in getting help is admitting there is a problem. The nature of narcissism makes it impossible for the person with NPD to admit he has a problem. Narcissists will always blame other people for the stress they feel, and for the problems around them, when it is really caused by their own behavior.