Many of us began doing what others wanted us to do in order to be loved and perceived as “good.” This can manifest in “positive” or “negative” emulation to align with our caregiver(s) actions. For example, a child may become compassionate like his mother or stubborn like his father. Because the actions are in alignment with what the parent may say or do, the child is then called “good.” Being good may get us love and attention, but getting love because of what we do or don’t do is the very definition of conditional love, a very low vibration. This creates an unhealthy pattern that sets up all
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