I’ve no doubt that the likes of Genesis and Annik thought they knew the “real” Ian, and that he was most at home in “their” world. But we thought we knew the real Ian. Probably Debbie did too. What I’ve realized in the years since is that the truth was a lot more complex and in-between than any of us really knew at the time. Thinking about it, I bet even Ian didn’t know who the “real” Ian was.