Fours primarily focus their attention on their internal experience, their emotions, the emotions of others, and interpersonal connection and disconnection. I once asked a Four whether she put her attention more on herself or more on others, and she said she put her attention “on the space between us.” That said, Fours are more self-referencing than other-referencing, meaning their attention is aimed more at their own inner experience than at what is going on with other people. At the same time, Fours naturally tune in to the state of their connections and to their perception of the underlying
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