One of the main challenges Fours face is that their tendency to focus on what is missing or lacking in situations can get them stuck in a negative cycle in which they can’t make the transition to accepting what is satisfying and “good enough” in the present. They don’t recognize and acknowledge their own positive qualities, like their capacities for growth (and positive change), their inherent lovability, and their beauty and power. And because they focus much of their attention on the past and the future, they tend not to see and take advantage of what is positive in their immediate, present
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