For Fours, this process involves observing the ways in which they devalue themselves to justify defending against the love they want; exploring the ways they get stuck in envy, shame, and inferiority; and making active efforts to see what is positive in the present as a way to allow themselves to open up to the good things that are available to them. It is particularly important for them to learn to stop believing in their own inner lack, to understand how they thwart their own efforts to achieve happiness, and to rise above their emotional defenses to open up to what they really want.
