As a Self-Preservation Three, I have an instinctual sense of what needs to be done and how to do it efficiently. It was hard to acknowledge that I’ve trained those around me to expect me to take over, so in more recent years it has been an interesting experience to step back. Before I jump in, I now ask the following questions: Does this have to done at all? Does it have to be done right now? Does it have to be done by me? It’s been amazing to see how much wasn’t needed but served my “doingitis.”
