Start With Why: How Great Leaders Inspire Everyone to Take Action

by Simon Sinek

Think of the young father who wants to do everything right for his newborn child. He decides he’s going to get a new car—something safe, something to protect his child. He spends a week reading all the magazines and reports, he’s seen all the advertising and decides that on Saturday he’s buying a Volvo. The facts are in and his mind is made up. Friday night he and his wife head to a dinner party. Standing by the punch bowl is their friend the local car enthusiast. Our intrepid new father walks up to his friend and proudly announces that, as a new father, he’s decided to buy a Volvo. Without a thought his friend replies, “Why would you do that? Mercedes is the safest car on the road. If you care about your kid, you’ll get a Mercedes.” Playing on his desires to be a good father, but also trusting his friend’s opinion, one of three things will happen. Our young father will either change his mind and buy a Mercedes; he will go forward with his original decision, but not without some doubt about whether he’s indeed doing the right thing; or he will go back to the drawing board to redo all his research in order to reassure himself of his decision. No matter how much rational information he has at his fingertips, unless that decision also feels right, stress will go up and confidence will go down.