It would be several months before it occurred to my parents that Aunt Evelyn was the rabbi’s mistress and had been ever since he’d met her at a reception following his speech to the Newark Teachers Union on “The Classroom Development of American Ideals”—and they realized it only then because, on leaving the New Jersey OAA to assume the job of federal director at the national headquarters in Washington, Bengelsdorf announced to the Newark papers news of his engagement, at age sixty-three, to his thirty-one-year-old firebrand of an assistant.
