To suffer one’s confusion is the first step in healing.* Then the pain of contradiction is transformed into the mystery of paradox. The quickest way I know to break a person is to give him or her two sets of contradicting values—which is exactly what we do, in modern culture, with our Sunday and Monday moralities. We are taught by Christianity to follow a set of values that are almost entirely disregarded in everyday business life. How is a person to cope?
