“Be at least as interested in your reactions as in the person or situation that triggers them,” Eckhart Tolle advises. In a mindful state one can choose to be aware of the ebb and flow of emotions and thought patterns instead of brooding on their content. Not “he did this to me and therefore I’m suffering” but “I notice that feelings of resentment and a desire for vengeance keep flooding my mind.” Although bare attention was developed as a meditative practice, its use is not limited to formal meditation. It is the conscious attending to what occurs in the mind as it takes in physical or
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