Level III: Situation Possibly Dangerous. 1. Inquire: “Is this a play fight or a real fight?” (Play fights are permitted. Real fights are not.) 2. Let the children know: “Play fighting by mutual consent only.” (If it’s not fun for both, it’s got to stop.) 3. Respect your feelings: “You may be playing, but it’s too rough for me. You need to find another activity.”

