“You’re getting through to me,” I said. “And I feel you’re making an important point. Children should be encouraged to share, and for very practical reasons. Just to get along in this world, they’ll need to know how to share—goods, space, themselves. And for spiritual reasons as well. We want our children to experience the pleasure and goodwill that comes from voluntary giving. Making children share, however, only makes them clutch their possessions more tightly. Forced sharing undermines goodwill.

