If You Are Not in Love Right Now Please know that you were often on my mind as I wrote, because I meet so many HSPs who are not in close relationships—by choice or not. But whatever the state of our current relationships, we HSPs tend to be more sculpted by our loves than others are. We tend to fall in love harder than others. So we can always benefit from reflecting on our past loves. Goethe is supposedly the source of a sentiment I like: I love you, and it has nothing to do with you.

