Then there are the differences that are not considered ideal for a particular gender, the topic of the next chapter. Men are supposed to be decisive, stoic, logical, and not really sensitive. Women are supposed to be gregarious, good with kids, skilled at expressing feelings, and deeply sensitive. It is implied that if you don’t have a “real man” or “feminine woman” for a partner, you have been shortchanged. It’s time to work on this—sensitivity has been confused with gender for too long.
