Cathy’s experience of abandonment is hard for a Martian to understand. Martian logic says “I have been so wonderful for the past two weeks. Shouldn’t that entitle me to a little time off? I have been giving to you all this time, now it’s time for me. You should be more secure and reassured about my love than ever.” Venusian logic approaches the experience differently: “These last two weeks have been so wonderful. I have let myself open up to you more than ever. Losing your loving attention is more painful than ever. I started to really open up and then you pulled away.”
