“We are always in a hurry” translated into Martian means “I feel so rushed today. I don’t like rushing. I wish our life was not so hurried. I know it is nobody’s fault and I certainly don’t blame you. I know you are doing your best to get us there on time and I really appreciate how much you care. “Would you empathize with me and say something like, ‘It is hard always rushing around. I don’t always like rushing either.’ ”