those are the same people who look around at others who have more success and say, “I can’t believe how lucky that guy is, I could do that if . . .” Stop. You could do that if . . . what? If you put in more time and effort? If you commit to whatever is making it work for him? If you’re willing to pay the price he’s paying? What’s he doing that you can’t do? That’s what I thought. You could do the same, and so much more. What’s stopping you? And even if you can’t do it his way—and why should you?—why aren’t you doing it your own way? Don’t be jealous of someone if you had the same opportunity
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