own, she’ll use it. If she doesn’t, she’ll try to take your weapon, and if that happens, she’ll probably use it against you. So never think for a moment that simply waving a gun at someone is going to magically make them do whatever it is you want them to do. “But the flip side of that is that you’d better be sure—damned sure—the stakes are worth escalating a confrontation that way. If there’s any
